Romain,
Not to get all sciency on you but medium chain saturated fats compete for the same metabolic pathway as the date(fructose). I would go with one or the other. It could look like this; coconut oil before workout then the frozen berries and hemp protein post workout.
Nothing wrong with doing your research and paying attention to a number of sources but you have to stay to one school of thought. Im glad that you have chose Thrive. A non argumentative vegetarian can do Thrive so you don't have to eat meat although I would recommend it because its more optimal for health, you don't have to eat a ton. But, thats for you to decide. Good to have you on board!