Totally agree that the forum/video feedback will give additional information and is extremely valuable. At the same time I find it annoying if e.g. the follow along or demo videos don't live up to the requirements put forth on the forum, which not always are consistent between the coaches, either. In the end of course, we only are accountable to ourselves and it's up to everyone to decide how far they want to go down that rabbit hole.
I can't imagine anyone meaning that you should keep PPT in the bridge. That just won't work, as you recognized. However, definitely keep your glutes engaged and don't just dump into the lower back for the arch, try to involve the thoracic spine as much as possible (see FL iM progressions)